Entry #9: Influences and perceptions of Media

Prior to taking this ENG  class, I already was what I would consider vastly aware of the effect and influence of media. Topics in class discussing the power of media haven't truly stirred any new ideas, but have brought them to a more forefront location occupying more frequent "brain time" as it correlates with the frequency of discussion of the topic.

Some of the behaviors/actions that I have and do link to a media influence as well as a societal influence are how individuals behave according to what their gender is supposed to be like. I see men/boys aspiring to be/look like the tough, rash, aggressive characters they see on movies, cartoons, advertisements, in music etc. And I see women/girls aspiring to look a certain way depending on the fad, and to behave a certain way depending on the current idealization. It's all a bunch of nonsense. Thankfully, I see a brighter future in the horizon. From just 10 years ago, there has been progress. More and more it is becoming acceptable (and shown in some advertisements), that boys/men can be sensitive/thoughtful/caring (it's a human "thing"/trait) and that girls/women can be dominant/aggressive/rational  (it's a human "thing"/trait).

But there is still much growth to be achieved. And the media in all its many mediums, such as advertisements, TV, movies, social media, music, books, technology, etc because they are so intertwined with our way of life, all play and will play a major role in determining how fast we reach a more equal ideology in tandem with face-to-face interactions.

Specifically, one small aspect I've noticed recently is how on TV, video advertisements etc, and in everyday life, the phrase: "you guys" is constantly becoming the preferred way of describing a group of people regardless of if the groups is indeed comprised of all "guys" or not. Instead, it can be said, "you all, you both, you two, you three, all of you, etc." This manner is more inclusive without specifying a gender.

Because the reach of media and its various forms is so vast, its usage and spread is indeed very powerful and successful in spreading messages and ideologies. The question is and will be how will we humans use it to become a better species.